Anyway, getting to the principles themselves, here are the first two:
Just for today . . .
I will not anger.
I will not worry.
I group these two together because both worry and anger are lower emotions that bring down our vibration rather than elevate it. Most often we become angry when our egos are challenged. Someone doesn't respect our position in society or our views of ourselves. We don't get what we were expecting or what we think we deserve. Someone hurts us or someone we love. We respond with anger.
Worry, on the other hand, comes from focusing on the future and what might or might not happen rather than on the present. If I had my druthers, I would insert not to regret either, since regret is really worry about what has already happened and is just as useless.
For the reiki person, adhering to these two gokai do not mean one never gets angry or never worries, but it is our intention not to dwell on these emotions. When we find them creeping in we deliberately take steps to cease focusing on these feelings. We breathe deeply and try to get back to a point of equilibrium and calm. I know, beyond any question of doubt, that all I need will be provided for--not necessarily in the way I want or the way I think things should go--but either way I will be okay. So I don't need to be so attached to a particular outcome or fuss over every little detail. Things will work out fine. I am a firm believer in the saying, "let go and let god (goddess, the Universe, Source or even karma) take care of the rest." Or in more commercial terms--"set it and forget it." Do all you can to put your plans in place and then step back and see what happens.
When it comes to writing, same rules apply. You do as much character work, plotting, world building or whatever and then let your creative mind fly. Leave some room for inspiration as well as perspiration. Raise your hand if some of your best writing has come from out of the ether somewhere, from a source you had no idea was influencing your work. I bet there are a lot of hands raised. I can remember working on one of my last stories where I wasn't sure what one of my characters full motivations might have been, but hey the best way to find out your characters is to write them, so I did. He throws something in the mix regarding my heroine I would never in a million years have considered putting in there on a conscious level--okay he blurts out that the heroine had once been pregnant with his child. My first impulse was to say, "no she wasn't" and start deleting, but I left it in. For me it made the story, because it deepened both his and my heroine's motivations for what they were doing, made my heroine way more sympathetic to the hero and added another layer to a complex story for the reader to digest. Fun stuff!
But if I had been attached to getting the words on paper exactly as I had imagined them--to suit my ego rather than my muse--I would have missed out on exciting possibilities for my story. This is to some degree why characters behaving badly is a good thing, since it shows you are leaving yourself open to whatever results from your characters energies getting stirred up.
Anger, worry and regret are major components in that blasted internal editor droning in your ears. They feed our fears, increase self-doubt and keep our minds whirring with needless agitation to no purpose. When you find your mind or your heart being taken over by these emotions, remember your intention to keep these emotions at bay. Take several deep breaths, inhaling light and energy into your tanden (or second chakra area just below the navel). Quiet the thinking mind and let the gut brain take over.
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For the reiki person, adhering to these two gokai do not mean one never gets angry or never worries, but it is our intention not to dwell on these emotions. When we find them creeping in we deliberately take steps to cease focusing on these feelings. We breathe deeply and try to get back to a point of equilibrium and calm. I know, beyond any question of doubt, that all I need will be provided for--not necessarily in the way I want or the way I think things should go--but either way I will be okay. So I don't need to be so attached to a particular outcome or fuss over every little detail. Things will work out fine. I am a firm believer in the saying, "let go and let god (goddess, the Universe, Source or even karma) take care of the rest." Or in more commercial terms--"set it and forget it." Do all you can to put your plans in place and then step back and see what happens.
When it comes to writing, same rules apply. You do as much character work, plotting, world building or whatever and then let your creative mind fly. Leave some room for inspiration as well as perspiration. Raise your hand if some of your best writing has come from out of the ether somewhere, from a source you had no idea was influencing your work. I bet there are a lot of hands raised. I can remember working on one of my last stories where I wasn't sure what one of my characters full motivations might have been, but hey the best way to find out your characters is to write them, so I did. He throws something in the mix regarding my heroine I would never in a million years have considered putting in there on a conscious level--okay he blurts out that the heroine had once been pregnant with his child. My first impulse was to say, "no she wasn't" and start deleting, but I left it in. For me it made the story, because it deepened both his and my heroine's motivations for what they were doing, made my heroine way more sympathetic to the hero and added another layer to a complex story for the reader to digest. Fun stuff!
But if I had been attached to getting the words on paper exactly as I had imagined them--to suit my ego rather than my muse--I would have missed out on exciting possibilities for my story. This is to some degree why characters behaving badly is a good thing, since it shows you are leaving yourself open to whatever results from your characters energies getting stirred up.
Anger, worry and regret are major components in that blasted internal editor droning in your ears. They feed our fears, increase self-doubt and keep our minds whirring with needless agitation to no purpose. When you find your mind or your heart being taken over by these emotions, remember your intention to keep these emotions at bay. Take several deep breaths, inhaling light and energy into your tanden (or second chakra area just below the navel). Quiet the thinking mind and let the gut brain take over.
If you have enjoyed this post, please leave a comment.







8 comments:
I think this is where people who consider themselves 'pantsers' get the idea that plotters are constrained by plotting. I do have a general idea where I am supposed to be going with each chapter, but I leave the door open for unplanned ideas to flow in.
Well, I consider myself a "panster" but I still have a general idea of what I'm doing, too. lol I think you have to find your comfort level in terms of how much pre-writing you do. For myself, I know if I put too much on paper or even talk about it too much, that's too close to actually writing for me. So I keep most of it in my head until it gets its chance to burst forth on the computer screen.
Wow!!! Is it karma or kismet or fate that leads us to places we didn't know existed or that we needed?
This is a great post and something I certainly needed to hear/read right now. Excellent stuff.
I'm going to go read the links in the post for even more inspiration.
Thanks!!!
I love this approach to keeping your mind set to write. A sense of equilibrium is needed in that process too. Thanks for the helpful ideas!
AnneMarie,
I think it is a little bit of all three. I hope you enjoy all the posts. Happy reading and writing.
All the best,
Dee
Hi Marsha,
Glad to be of service. These practices have really helped me, so I want to share.
All the best,
Dee
Excellent post, Dee. And something I'm struggling with right now and discovering on my own how senseless Anger and Worry is and how it ruins my writing day. Actually, a few days before reading this post, I'd decided to put anger and worry aside and focus on the present. My days were brighter and much more productive. Sometimes we have to give it up to God. Like Anne Marie said, I felt like I was sent here to read this post for a reason. Thank you so very much for sharing this. Alisha
(For some reason it wouldn't let me post with my google account. I'm not really anon..lol. )
Hey Alisha,
Lord only knows what goes through Google's mind sometimes. Glad to hear you are working on handling anger and worry better. Neither help us as writers. I am so glad so many people are finding this post useful! Thanks for sharing.
All the best,
Dee
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